Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Sexy single dating

 
 
 
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Sexy Singles Dating
 
 
        Singles dating is an activity undertaken by a couple to assess mutual interest, compatibility and/ or to find love.  Methods of dating continue to change but the basic considerations remain the same.
  
      There are many types of singles dating.  Traditional dating usually involves some type of entertainment, such as a movie, and dinner.  Speed dating is a type of dating where individuals have the opportunity to talk to each other for a specified amount of time and then rotate.  Single events dating is where a large group of singles meet for a certain event and are able to mingle.  Online dating involves individuals going to a online dating site and submit a profile and perhaps fill out a questionaire.  The dating site then matches people according to interests and compatibility.    Cell phone dating and mobile dating are where singles talk, leave voicemail messages, or text each other in an effort to get know each better.  Blind dates are dates that are set up by mutual friends.
  
     One of the most popular forms of dating is online dating.  Online dating is a type of dating allows singles to contact and communicate over the Internet.  Online dating services provide this modern and high tech form of matchmaking via personal computers, phones or other mobile devices.  These dating services usually require participants to provide information about themselves. Criteria may include such things as gender, age range and location.  It may go further to include personality questions to gauge the participants interests and values.   This data is added to a huge database which is then used in the matchmaking process.  Some online dating services may also offer other services including online chat, webcasts, phone chats and message boards.  Most dating services allow the participants to upload photos of themselves which can then be viewed by others.
   
    There are some important considerations that the participants in online dating  may find use useful. It is best to upload a recent photo that best highlights your looks and personality.  Don't set rigid requirements for the other person.  It is okay to have core standards and values, but allow yourself to be surprised and have the opportunity to meet someone with different interests.  When uploading or updating your online profile,  include interesting things about yourself including your passion and hobbies.  Always check the spelling and grammar.  Take the time to answer any questions carefully and thoughtfully.  Avoid being crude, rude or negative.  Always be honest and truthful.   When participating in online dating always exercise safety, caution and good judgement.  It is always wise not to give out too much personal information, especially at first.  If you decide to meet in person, choose a safe public place for your date.
            
    Here are some other dating tips.  Always be on time, especially for your first date.  First impressions matter so be courteous.  You become sexy when you make the other person feel sexy or good.  Being a great conversationalist is a great way to accomplish this.  Start the conversation by being more of a listener than a talker.  Ask open-ended questions that require more than a "yes" or "no answer."  Ask about what the person is wearing.  Ask about what the person did that day.  Ask about something that happened in the news that day.
   
     Keep the conversation going by continuing to be more of a listener than a talker.  Occasionally add something about yourself so the other person can get to know you.  Continue to ask open-ended questions.  Show that you are interested in what the person has to say.  Help the person feel good about his or her accomplishments or what they have to say.  Try to find out what the person is passionate about.  Try to find out what the person's purpose in life is.  What makes him or her happy.  Try to read as much as possible so that you are a well-rounded individual.  It is good to know a little about a wide range of topics and also to be aware of current events.  That way you will be able to have topics to discuss and also be able to respond to the other person's interests.  But remember to keep the spotlight on the other person and listen as much as possible.  It is also important how you end a conversation.  End the conversation by telling the person you really enjoyed the conversation.  Recap to the person what you took away from the conversation.
  
        Here are some other ways to be a good date.   Becoming a better person will make you a better person, sexier, and thus a better date.  If you want to find the right person, then be the right person.  Always be kind to other people and animals.  Find a sense of purpose so that you are happy and feel fulfilled.  Help others find their sense of purpose and fulfillment.  Be happy about other people's accomplishments.  Don't be materialistic.  Having more stuff won't make you happy.  Volunteer.  Be generous.  Be optimistic.  Look on the bright side.  Don't complain about things.  
   
     Don't criticize others.  Don't take yourself too seriously.  Have a sense of humor.  Learn to laugh.  Exercise and eat right.  The healthier you are, the happier you are.  Be playful and fun.  Be romantic.  Be sincere.  Be honest.  Make other people feel important.  Laugh when other people try to be funny.  Read as much as possible so you have a sense of the world.  Be confident.  Don't worry about making mistakes, just learn from them. Be happy about your date's accomplishments and let her talk about them.  Make your date feel important. Make your date feel that he or she is attractive.
   
    It is important to remember that you become sexy when you make the other person feel sexy.  It is like a halo effect.  People will love being around you.  But remember to always be kind, honest and sincere.  Put others before yourself.  Not only will it make the other person feel good, you will feel good about yourself

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